Often confused with sympathy, empathy is the ability to understand and accept someone's thoughts, feelings and emotions. Whereas sympathy is to commiserate or perhaps feel bad about someone else's loss or misfortune, empathy goes further than this; it is to take another perspective as if stepping into their shoes.
In order to empathise, a child must not only learn to accept and understand but also to place value on other people and their perspectives. And to do so they must first feel accepted and understood themselves.
Why is empathy important?
Today's young people are growing up in a society largely lacking in empathy. The population of the UK is becoming increasingly diverse, yet hate crimes are on the up. It is crucial that future generations hone these skills as, not only is empathy important for a healthy society to function, it is also central to being human.
12 books about empathy
Here are our top reading choices for championing diversity and helping young readers develop empathy:
- I am Human: A Book of Empathy by Susan Verde and Peter H Reynolds, published by Abrams Books for Young Readers. We love the series of books from this team: I am Yoga; I am Peace; and I am Human. This book beautifully affirms that with empathy and compassion comes hope for a better future.
- The Last Chip by Duncan Beedie, published by Templar.
- Super Duper You by Sophy Henn and published by Puffin Books. This bold, colourful, rhyming story aimed at children around 3-5 years old is a celebration of all the things that make us unique. A must read for preschoolers.
- Elmer by David Mckee and published by
- Wonder by R.J Palacio and published by Puffin.
- We're All Wonders by R.J Palacio and published by Puffin.
- Freddie & the Fairy by Julia Donaldson and Karen George, published by Macmillan. A story of a little fairy who can't hear very well and how her friend Freddie learns to help her. This has been read over and over again in our house as two of the Mini Reviewers have had hearing difficulties.
- The Smartest Giant in Town by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler, published by Macmillan. The story of a kind giant who goes out of his way to help others.
- Odd Dog Out by Rob Biddulph and published by Harper Collins. A bright picture book aimed at children around 3 years old and upwards about a little sausage dog who doesn't fit in. But she soon comes to realise that standing out is perhaps better!
- How to be a Lion by Ed Vere and published by Puffin Books.
- It's a No-Money Day by Kate Milner and published by Barrington Stoke. With the increasing need of foodbanks to feed society's most vulnerable here in the UK, this book is an essential read for all children.
- My name is not refugee by Kate Milner and published by Barrington Stoke. Written from the perspective of a child refugee, this book is another important read for all children.
All 12 of these books can be found in our online Amazon Store here.*
EmpathyLab founded in 2014, is a not-for-profit CIC and the organiser of Empathy Day. It produces annual reading lists suggesting the best literature for helping children develop their empathy skills together with resources to be used together. You can find out more about Empathy Day here.
Until next time... HAPPY READING!
Kate & the Mini Reviewers xx
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